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What do we do when a scene goes dreadfully wrong or when we have passed an area that is uncomfortable for one or more parties involved?
Do we build resentment for this act or situation, pull away from our partner(s) over it, or deal with it and accept it while working through any issues that evolved as a result of it? In the beginning of my journey, there were many things presented to me. Some activities I agreed upon and others I asked to think about, because I didn't know if I could deal with them. My journey into the world of bdsm began in submission.
Yes, I was once a slave owned by a master. After a few years I switched, and I've been a lifestyle dominatrix for the past eleven years. Knowing and understanding the ropes from both ends, I can say from experience that one needs to think carefully about his or her toleration levels before going to any extreme, taking into consideration things such as personal frame of mind, mental orientation as well as unresolved issues or emotional baggage that might cause conflict. A person should not be pushed into doing something he or she is very uncomfortable with. Be careful in deciding whether or not you believe you can handle something that you're unsure about.  Contact any of us toll free for guidance in safe and sane BDSM play. We're happy to provide live support in proper bondage and discipline techniques for single men, women or between partners. Call us anytime. |
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